Have you read those articles about how playing golf with your significant other is fraught with danger for your relationship? Well, this article is different. I shall talk about how to have fun playing golf with your spouse (or significant other).
Whether you’re an experienced golfer or a beginner, we’ll tell you how to make the most of your golfing experience together.
It’s not about choosing the perfect golf course. Nor is it about giving helpful and uncritical tips.
You can discover the secrets of creating a lighthearted and enjoyable atmosphere, where golf and laughter go hand in hand.
So, grab your clubs and put on your golf shoes. Get ready to have fun playing golf with your spouse. Tee off for two and make some happy memories on the fairway.
Why We Love Playing Golf Together.
Ever since I learned to play golf (about 15 years ago), Rick and I have always loved playing together and had fun.
What is our secret?
Several things, really. The first of which is that we never keep score. Our objective when we go out together, is to enjoy the day, without stress.
Rick has played golf for most of his life and never kept score. So, naturally, he taught me to do the same. Neither of us is highly competitive, so we don’t need to keep score to enjoy the game.
Next, is that golf courses are usually situated in beautiful surroundings. We make it a point to enjoy the beauty and being outdoors together. We love playing golf, so it is the perfect activity for us when we combine leisure with exercise.
Despite the fact that we know each other very well – we’ve been together for 20 years – there is still stuff to learn about each other. The strategies and problem-solving involved in golf often give each of us new insights about the other.
Finally, it is a great way to meet new people and make new friends. We often find ourselves paired with another couple, who also love golf.
Four of our closest friends are people we met first, and were paired with, on a golf course. You may be surprised to know that two of them are Swiss. They travel from Switzerland almost every year to play golf in Florida during the winter months.
Is Golf Course Choice Important?
I’m not actually sure that there is a right or wrong golf course on which you can have fun with your spouse.
We play mostly on local Florida courses that we enjoy. I would certainly recommend choosing a course that has some challenges, though is appropriate to the the skill level of each person.
Here is one thing I would recommend. Make sure that the course you choose has a great 19th Hole with good food and a bar.
There is nothing quite like relaxing after the game with your spouse or significant other over a good meal and a few drinks.
This is certainly how to have fun playing golf with your spouse.
Observe Golf Etiquette While On The Course.
Just because you and your spouse are out there to have fun and enjoy the day, doesn’t mean you should not observe normal golf etiquette.
There may be others on the course with you who have a more serious and competitive attitude towards the game.
So, make sure that you do not meander too much or search too long for lost balls.. Keep pace with the group ahead.
Help to keep the golf course in good condition and repair divots and ball marks – especially on the greens.
Lastly, respect the other players and help to minimize noise and distractions. You can still have fun if you avoid talking loudly or on the phone while others are teeing off.
Everyone should be able to enjoy their golf day out in their own way.
How To Have Fun Playing Golf With Your Spouse.
Here are three ways to play the course and spice up your game.
- Alternate Shot: This game is exactly what it’s title suggests. One of you tees off, then the other hits the next shot and so on, until you reach the green. This requires you to play as a team and communicate well to develop strategy.
- Closest to the Pin: You decide together to choose a specific hole (or holes) to see which one of you can land the ball closest to the pin. This certainly adds some friendly competition into your game, and can help you with accuracy and understanding distance.
- Scramble: Teamwork again. Both of you tee off and then choose the best shot. You both continue to play from there. This game can help you both to achieve a good score – that is if you do decide to score after all.
The aim of your day out is to have fun and enjoy the day outdoors together. Only friendly competition is allowed – nothing serious. Neither of you will win nor have a perfect game.
Planning A Golf Getaway For Even More Fun.
This can be the ultimate fun experience for couples who love golf, and who love playing together.
Plan the vacation together for an opportunity to explore new courses, enjoy luxurious accommodation and immerse yourselves in the world of golf.
Decide whether you want to plan a short trip 2-4 days or something longer, perhaps two weeks. Then choose the desitnation accordingly.
If a mini-vacation, you may want to stay in one location and play at one course. Alternatively, for something longer, make sure that your destination offers several courses and different amenities.
Are you going to fly or drive.? Do you have the right travel equipment for your golf clubs and accessories.
You can research all the details online yourself, or choose to travel through a vacation planner.
Golfing Together Strengthens Relationships.
By excluding competition and including fun and enjoyment, playing golf with your spouse can lead to a stronger relationship off the course.
There is ample opportunity for conversation and listening to each other while playing golf together. Make sure you use this unique moment to deepen the bond between you.
Encourage and support each other in both golf and life. Celebrate your successes and give encouragement during the challenges.
Maintain a lighthearted attitude towards golfing together – don’t take yourselves too seriously – and most of all, have fun when playing golf with your spouse.
Final Thoughts On How To Have Fun Playing Golf With Your Spouse.
Playing golf with your spouse can be a fun and rewarding experience.
We have shared with you in this article our own strategies for having fun and enjoyment on the golf course. In reading this article, you’ve learned:
- Why we love playing golf together.
- Whether your choice of golf course is important.
- Etiquette is still important, even if you’re out there having fun.
- Games you can play to spice up your day.
- How to think about planning a golf getaway.
- How golfing together can strengthen relationships.
So, all that remains to be said is tee off with enthusiasm, embrace the challenges and have fun and enjoyment on your day out golfing with your spouse.
I know I shall.
What a delightful article on how to have fun playing golf with your spouse! I thoroughly enjoyed reading about your experiences and the strategies you’ve developed over the years. It’s wonderful to see that you prioritize enjoyment and relaxation over keeping score, creating a stress-free environment on the golf course.
I couldn’t agree more with your emphasis on the beauty of golf courses and the opportunity they provide to connect with nature. Being outdoors, surrounded by picturesque surroundings, can truly enhance the overall experience. It’s also fascinating how golf can continue to teach you new things about each other, even after being together for so long. The strategic and problem-solving aspects of the game certainly contribute to deeper insights and understanding.
Meeting new people and making friends on the golf course is another aspect I appreciate. Golf has a unique way of bringing people together, and it’s heartwarming to hear that you’ve formed lasting friendships with fellow golf enthusiasts. It goes to show that golf can be a social and community-building activity.
In terms of choosing the right golf course, I appreciate your perspective that there isn’t necessarily a right or wrong choice. Instead, finding a course that offers appropriate challenges for both players and has a welcoming 19th Hole with good food and a bar sounds like a winning combination. Relaxing and sharing a meal with your spouse after a game sounds like the perfect way to unwind and reflect on the day.
Your advice on observing golf etiquette is spot-on. While having fun is a priority, it’s essential to be considerate of other players who may have a more serious approach to the game. Maintaining pace, repairing divots, and minimizing distractions all contribute to a respectful and enjoyable golfing experience for everyone.
I particularly enjoyed your suggestions for different ways to spice up your game. Alternating shots, aiming for the closest to the pin, or playing as a team in a scramble format are all fantastic ideas to add some friendly competition and teamwork to the mix. It’s refreshing to see that your focus remains on fun and camaraderie rather than intense rivalry.
Planning a golf getaway together sounds like an incredible idea for couples who share a love for the sport. Exploring new courses, indulging in luxurious accommodation, and fully immersing yourselves in the golfing world can create unforgettable memories. The tips you provided for planning such a getaway, including considering the length of the trip and the destination’s amenities, are practical and helpful.
I truly appreciate the emphasis you placed on how golfing together can strengthen relationships. The opportunity for conversation, support, and celebration during a round of golf can deepen the bond between spouses. It’s wonderful advice to maintain a lighthearted attitude, both on and off the course, and to cherish the moments of joy and togetherness.
Overall, your article is filled with valuable insights and practical tips for couples looking to have a fun and fulfilling experience playing golf together. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences, offering sound advice, and reminding us to prioritize enjoyment, connection, and relaxation in the game. I’m inspired to tee off with enthusiasm and embrace the challenges while creating lasting memories on the fairway with my spouse.
Cheers
M.T. Wolf
Hello Mike, Thank you for stopping by and commenting on my article about how to have fun playing golf with your spouse.I’m so pleased that you appreciated my thoughts and suggestions. So often you read articles about why to never play golf with your spouse, so because Rick and I have such fun together, I wanted to share how we do it.
I hope you will find your own way of having fun playing golf with your spouse.
Best wishes, Jenni.
Hello Jenni! I just finished reading your article Tee Off For Two: How To Have Fun Playing Golf With Your Spouse. And I really enjoyed reading this particular article!
I’ve never personally played golf before. But, I do have a great-aunt who plays golf in the summer months almost every single day of the week, and I believe when her husband was still with us, he also enjoyed golf too.
I never thought of golf as being a good activity that couples can enjoy. Until I read your article of course! I knew that you definitely can play golf with a few people, or one other person. But, I never thought that it could be a really enjoyable couple’s activity.
On the contrary! It is! Now that I have read your article, I was really surprised about the really great points you made about how you can make mesh together your and your spouse’s love and enjoyment of golf into a fun day out on the green together.
And I really enjoyed reading your tips on how you can make your tee-off-for-two golf game a little more exciting by playing a few extra golf games while enjoying the outdoors, and being with your spouse. And all without keeping score, or taking the game too seriously.
I think that’s probably the most important part. You can’t add a competitive flare, otherwise, that just ruins the game for everyone. The goal should always be to have fun, enjoy the time spent with your spouse, enjoy good food/drinks, and the friends that you meet together while also enjoying a game of golf.
I also really loved how you added a few other things in this article that would apply to couples who enjoy playing golf together. For example, planning a golf getaway. The options are endless in terms of the destination you choose to play golf, the lovely hotel or resort you might stay in while off of the course, the luxurious food/drinks on and off the course, etc.
And I enjoyed the fact that, even still, after knowing your spouse for 20 years, you still learn new things about one another on the golf course while enjoying playing golf together. I’ve never played golf before, but I know it is a game that requires quite a bit of patience, and skill, and sometimes teamwork as well.
And those are a few of the things that may also be required to have a relationship with someone. After reading your article I’m beginning to think golf is a fantastic game for couples to enjoy together. And it does have the potential to strengthen the connection and love in your relationship.
This was a wonderful, light-hearted, and informational article about tee-ing off for two on the golf course. I really enjoyed reading it, Jenni! I can’t wait to read what you write next.
Hello Cal, Thank you so much for your comment on my article about how to have fun playing golf with your spouse (or significant other). I am so glad you enjoyed reading it, even if you are not a golfer yourself. I hope that, perhaps, I have tempted you to take up golf for the reasons you mention in your comment. I really appreciate you stopping by, Best wishes, jenni.